Therefore I want to talk about HOW you can build up your love walk! How you can really show love to others which can be really healing in your own life.1) Smile at people: Sometimes it is just a simple smile that will really encourage others. We really need to learn how to smile. Your smile is so beautiful and it can really be life changing to others. When you are out and about make sure that you smile at people. Have a happy face and light up the world with your smile.
2) Help others: This could be helping your sister with her assignment, washing the dishes in your house, helping your friend with tidying up her house, baby-sitting your nephew, perhaps you could volunteer at a local event or at your Church. Think about others not just yourself. There are people and companies that really need you and your services. You could also help people by starting a blog, making motivational videos, sharing your skills and gifts. Write a list of 5 ways that you can help people/companies this week and get busy my friend.
3) Buy gifts: Today is my sisters birthday and she is 25 and I bought her a bag to show my love, I also have many other gifts that I will give her this week including a birthday cake. I am doing all of this because I value her and appreciate her.I did this because I want to show her love! One of the best ways to show love to people in life is through giving gifts. This doesn’t have to be for a special reason it could just be an act of kindness from time to time. If you are married I would LOVE for you to buy your wife a gift at least twice a month. What about some of those Teachers that were really good to you? Have you ever thought to send them a gift to say thank you? Write a list of 3 people that you could bless over the next week and do something small or big to bless them with a gift. You will be amazed at how you will brighten up their day.
4) Compliment people: I LOVE complimenting people. You can do this too by acknowledging great things about people. If you see a woman on the streets and you really like her shoes say so, tell her! Now if you are married perhaps this isn’t a good idea but you can compliment family members, you can compliment your friends, you can compliment your work collegues. Do this instead of laughing at people and putting them down, look for ways to encourage your clients, friends and family and cheer them on! If your finance gets a new hair cut say ‘Wow honey your hair looks amazing’, don’t just look at him as if nothing has happened. Give and it will be given onto you!
Now I also want to say here that if you are not good at recieving compliements that this could make you hard in giving compliments. So also learn to recieve my friend instead of saying ‘I look fat’ when someone says ‘Wow you look so slim’ say ‘Thank you’ just take it in and smile and stop puttng yourself down.
5) Send thank you notes: Think of 10 companies that have been good to you. Services that you are grateful for in your community or online and reach out to them with thank you cards and thank you emails, I do this from time to time and it really makes me feel good when they write back and say ‘Thank you’ or how it really touched them! It doesn’t matter if it is a big brand, you can still say thank you! Why take good companies for granted? We are often fast to complain when things don’t go our way or when we have a bad experience in a store but have you ever thought to go out of our way to post a thank you letter to companies that have been serving you excellently for years? How about sending at least 5 thank you emails/letters/cards before the end of this month?
I also want to speak about videos. I am sure you watch tons of videos on YouTube, but how often have you ever left a lovely comment? And how many ‘thank you comments’ do you leave in comparison to how many videos you watch? You are getting so much LOVE and ENCOURAGEMENT or ENTERTAINMENT from these gurus/entertainers but are you bothering to saying ‘thank you’ to these mentors or role models, are you sharing their videos? Are you saying ‘keep up the good work’? Or are you being selfish and holding back your kind words? Are you so busy that you can’t say ‘Thank you’? They are putting in so much effort to encourage you and some of these gurus are the reason why you are so successful today and YET sometimes you forget to show them love. Your words of encouragement might actually help them to keep going. Perhaps they even want to quit and your words could give them a new fire! I challenge you to do some of these things over the next couple of weeks. You might notice your own happiness and joy grow faster than ever!
My friend, ABOVE ALL,; I want you to know that God loves you very much, believe that He does, no matter what you are going through, His love is th cure! RECIEVE GOD’S LOVE for you today, LOVE YOURSELF and FORGIVE!!
Forgiveness is often what blocks up our ability to LOVE yet forgiveness is also the key to true freedom. So forgive yourself today, forgive others today and let go of the past memories that are holding you back from being truly free. Leave the past in the past. It is time for you to move forwards in life and life freely 🙂
I can’t wait to hear your success story of how you loved more than ever before!
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Queen Chioma Nworgu MA, BA (hons)