Increase your capacity to give and receive LOVE :-)

Happy Valentine’s Weekend 🙂

That special time of the year is approaching ‘Valentine’s day’. I am sure that most of you are doing something special and romantic. If you are lucky enough to have a special date lined up with a date or spouse – always remember to give love. Give love to your date by giving them your undivided attention, care, affection, warmth and tender-kindness.

Show love to your date by giving good eye contact, by listening to what they say, give them compliments and make sure you give them a nice gift and a card. Above all Valentines day is about fun – so make them enjoy spending time in your presence by being as fun and lively as you can be.

It is also significant that you ‘receive love’ – the best way to receive love is by showing gratitude when your date is kind to you i.e. say thank you to your date when s/he compliments you, say thank you when h/she offers to pay for the meal or cinema tickets. Your date can try to show you love in a million ways but maybe your heart is closed and you don’t receive their love. Relationships can become very frustrating if one person finds it hard to express or receive love, so make it a habit to open your heart to love.

‘So what should I do if I don’t have a date Chioma?’, ‘Do something special for yourself’ (is my answer). Love is not always about people making you feel special, sometimes we need to pamper ourselves. Maybe you could go shopping and buy yourself a bunch of  roses, a beautiful card and some chocolates. Go out with some friends (who are also single) for a lovely Valentine’s day meal. If everyone is busy; don not despair….stay at home and cook yourself a nice meal, pamper yourself and watch movies. If you can not enjoy your own company and love yourself then it may be hard for you to love that special someone when h/she comes along. Start with loving yourself before you try to love others.

Well. I hope this blog helps and I wish you all a wonderful, romantic, special, fun, blessed valentines weekend – Happy Valentines day for tomorrow 🙂

Queen Chioma xxxxx

This week I want you to increase your awareness of how much people love you. At the end of each day or when you get home from work, write down 3 things that has happened to you in the day (that has made you feel loved and special). It could be simple things like a cuddle that a friend gave you when you met up, a smile a man gave you when you were on the tube, maybe your sister said you look amazing in your new suit. Put the list into a box or under your pillow and at the end of the week look over all the things that have happened in the week. You will be  amazed and your love tank will be full 🙂 We take simple things for granted…we need to become aware of love and let it make us whole 🙂

Hello world – My new blog starts today :-)

Dear friends,

This is my first blog. So far 2010 has been an exciting year, I started a new job which is going really well. I have literally completed my MA degree a couple of weeks ago and looking forward to graduating.

I am coaching more clients via Skype, face to face, phone, email which is so rewarding and fun. I had a coaching session with my new client the other day who recommended that I start writing articles on wordpress …so here I am 🙂 I have decided that I will eventually drop my old blogger account( and will be using word press once this takes off.  

So what can you expect to gain from checking out my new blog?? Well the answer is…lots of articles, blogs, videos and quotes on success related topics in different covering all categories: Success, Business, Career/Work, Personal-development, Health and Fitness, Hair and Beauty and Education. I have also created a section called ‘Latest News/Diary where I will update you with the latest news or speak about my life i.e. an upcoming interview or new pictures.

Speaking of interviews; did you manage to watch my latest interview on Ben TV?? It was on TV last week Thursday (the 4th of Feb) at 10.30pm on channel 184 sky digital. Some of my friends and fans have mentioned that they did watch it and enjoyed it. My mother and I were interviewed by Shola Lado (TV Presenter of the show Hidden Treasure) we spoke on Educational Issues and Nigeria. I also mentioned what I do as a Success Coach and Motivational Speaker and my plans/aspirations for 2010. Hopefully this video should be posted onto facebook soon -so that should be fun and for those of you who missed it; well you’ll be able to watch it there 🙂

I hope you enjoy my new blog and believe it will give the motivation and inspiration that you need to push for more success 🙂

If you would like one-on-one coaching or to book me to speak or sing at one of your events, please feel free to contact me on:  pls see my website  for full details and more info.

Many blessings

Queen Chioma